Showing posts with label changing our focus. Show all posts
Showing posts with label changing our focus. Show all posts

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Figuring Your Life Out


Too many times we live our life on the edge. Waiting for the inevitable to happen which may or may not come true.

Sometimes we look at all that goes wrong in our lives and wonder just what that other path would have lead to now that we stand at the dead end.

Yet in the midst of each new day, each precious, golden hour, every beautiful minute or breath-taking second, we have the choice. The choice is ours alone to make.

We may be influenced, or swayed but ultimately each decision we make is ours alone. So many people are without hope, which is such a tragedy despite all the things that are falling down around us. The disasters in Japan, the conflicts in Libya, the economic recovery of our own country and our own struggle to make it, can often take our breath away. We can fall short of seeing the fleeting, beautiful signs all around us of how magical and wonderful this life of ours can truly be.

Our choice is where we will look?

Will we chose to look at all the things going wrong, dealing with frustrations, worries and anxiety and stress?

Or will we chose instead to search for the treasure of good that lies within it all and find something good today. I challenge you to share your search for goodness today and change your focus. I leave you with a short video that touches on this very thing and hope you will share your special gifts with me today by leaving a comment. What was your gift today?

Mine? Hubby is already flying back home! I can't wait to tell him when I see him!



(If this loads too slow, double click on it to view it directly from YouTube!)

By the way you can go directly to Ann's website by clicking here.

Thursday, July 22, 2010

Time To Focus


Imagine one day your driving on a highway, minding your own business, admiring the beautiful sky in front of you. You're keeping up with traffic and then, out of the corner of your eye, you see a big, naked, ugly, hairy man running on the side of the road giving everyone the thumbs up. You can't take your eyes off this crazy guy and in the process your car veers into the next lane and you get into an accident with someone who was so shocked by the big hairy guy that she didn't know what to do either.

Sin is the big, hairy, ugly, naked guy. We have a tendency to focus more on the sin in our lives than on God, the Giver of love and life. What happens when we shift our focus?

We crash.

We were not created to be flawed creatures. We were called by God to greatness. We spend too much of our time focusing on how vile human beings are. We need to shift that focus. I'm not saying to ignore sin, but when you focus on something you become that thing. If I focus my mind on the idea that I am a loser, I will become a loser. If I focus on becoming a great student, I will become a great student.

Here's another great example:

In 1843, Nathaniel Hawthorne, the author of The Scarlet Letter, published a short story called "The Birthmark". At the center of this tale is a beautiful young woman with a tiny hand-shaped birthmark on her face. She is the talk of the town, praised for her beauty and desired by many.

There is one young man, a scientist, who falls for the gorgeous young woman, courts her, and eventually marries her. After their wedding, the young man becomes obsessed with his wife's birthmark and as the days wear on he begins to see her as ugly, a perfect being marred by this hideous defect. Soon the young woman buys into her husband's opinion and considers herself an abomination.

The young scientist decides he can create a way to get rid of the mark and make this near-perfect creature perfect. He gives her a potion to drink. She drinks and the mark fades. The young man has gained what he has always wanted perfection.

Minutes later his wife dies and his moment of perfection, the love of his life, is lost forever.

Each of us has a birthmark. This mark is very real and can be very dangerous, but over the last two thousand years the focus has been less on the beauty of the creation and more on the defect.

What we have done to ourselves is like a person who owns a beautiful diamond but focuses only on the tiny scratch deep within. There are few perfect diamonds in the world. Each has a flaw. We have spent the whole of human history focusing not on the radiance of the diamond, but obsessing on the blemish. Instead of focusing on love and forgiveness, we've nursed anger and hatred.

God created us to be greater than the angels! Greater than the angels!! We slipped and fell and scratched ourselves. The cut, the bleeding, however does not change our original nature. Instead the enemy had shifted our focus ever so slightly away from the forgiving beauty of God to depravity. If we become what we focus on, then we as human beings have become everything we were never intended to be.

Isn't it time to change our focus and see ourselves like God does? Isn't it time to focus on the beauty of the diamond instead of the small scratch, no one sees it but us. Let's change our focus.

Join me in the 30 day challenge to add 15 minutes of prayer, praise, meditation and worship to our day and see what life changes will happen. Simply leave a comment and let me know that you completed your 15 minutes today, and then update us if anything amazing happened in your day. Perhaps it was a sense of peace you had, or overwhelming joy despite what was going on. Share with us every day and let it inspire others to join in. I can't wait to hear your comments. ~ Kat